About Me

I am 36 years old (37 now)(38 now)(49 now!), single, and want to become a mother. I had my ideal of marriage, house, baby, happiness. Well, life teaches you that nothing is certain and we all need to forge our own path. This is mine. UPDATE: and baby girl makes family :) And now baby boy makes bigger family!

Sunday, March 25, 2012

It's A.........????

G-I-R-L!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Totally surprised as I fully expected a boy. Don't know why, but that's what I kept thinking.  What ended up happening was on Monday at the Dr. appointment, since they didn't have the CVS test to confirm--Dr. said she thought she knew based on the ultrasound. I asked her to go ahead and tell me and she said it looks girl-ish. So, I wanted to wait until the call on Tuesday w/ CVS test results to confirm it was a GIRL. And yes, it was!! It was so sweet the nurse said I can go ahead and buy pink :)

Also, the CVS test for chromosomal abnormalities is completely normal.  Such a sigh of relief. Now, the only other screen they will do is a blood screen in about 3 weeks to check for neural tube. The Dr. didn't seem to be concerned about that at all.

A girl........not going to lie, it made me a bit anxious.  I had gotten my mind around boy. Then I started thinking about girl issues like self-esteem, body image, boys, etc. and I got nervous. I realize all of this is years away, but it's important to me to try and raise a confident girl.  Also, thinking about how the absence of a father might impact her.  I'll have to really work on exposure to positive male role models. I thought there may be books on the subject I can research.

Next check-up after Easter.

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